in marriage

u have to sacrifice alot?

is that true:hmmm:

Re: in marriage

Not really, it depends what situation you are going from, and the situation you are going into.

I don't think I sacrificed anything EXCEPT that you have to sometimes put the other half's requirements into perspective.

Re: in marriage

None at all.

After becoming mother and having children is another story but marriage itself doesn't ask for any sacrifice.

Re: in marriage

i do agree with rupay hulwa

Re: in marriage

I agree with ms Hareem. There is compromise but not sacrifice. Once the kiddies arrive, there can be sacrifices (like I used to enjoy a pedicure every now and then but now spend that money on the boyz)...but then again, it doesnt feel like a sacrifice so it really isnt.

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Sacrifice - is when you give, give and give - but get not much in return

Most marriages are compromise - sure one has an upper hand in it though :naraz: and then other has to give in

I agree with Hareem before kids you don't have to compromise and after kids you need to change your priorities but you still feel happy. :)

Well obviously. Human sacrifice is no light matter. :stuck_out_tongue:

Re: in marriage

not really.

all i've sacrificed is my trashy horror comics.

she, her shopping spree's.

Re: in marriage

yeh i agree too there isnt sacrifises but compromises,and mostly wives do

Pengs in Life1 :hayaa:

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getting hot coffee and samosay to serve the lady

To answer your question, yes. You do have to sacrifice…but of you love your spouse, the sacrifices don’t hurt. They may cause some discomfort, some negative thoughts, but eventually they don’t matter.

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Compromise...you just take what they say into consideration.

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Yeah men have to sacrifice thier khushian after marriage :teary2:

Compromise not sacrifice

If you look at it as “compromise” instead of “sacrifice”, it will make life easier

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isn't compromise the same as sacrifice? either case you're putting a positive connotation on giving things up, something you wouldn't in other situations.

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It is pretty much the same thing. You just meet somewhere in the middle...or you let go...or you don't care wither way...you just fit in to what you each desire of each other and figure out ways.

The problems start when you become selfish and think of yourself only.

Re: in marriage

i agree with Niksik....

Re: in marriage

One sacrifices for other by compromising.