Re: In laws that follow you around everywhere
^ This. The question is not clear. Are the in-laws following you or their son? Are they following as in room to room inside the house? Places? Is this a situation where the rishta is being arranged and guy’s parents are just involved OR the wedding is done?
Most importantly: Have you discussed this with the guy and if so, what did the guy say? Does he let YOU decide whether his parents will follow you? Or does he defend his parents actions?