in-laws on facebook

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if i had a husband or in-laws like the stories i read here on facebook ... they'd never be on my facebook. i still dont have many of them on ... just my MIL and SIL .. i have good relations with my MIL ... not so good anymore with my SIL ... but i havent deleted her ... i just dont care ... but i am really thinking of cleaning up my list. enough of my little sister telling me that i am growing too old ... lol

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They are all on my FB. There's nothing I feel I need to limit. But a lot of people I know just restrict privacy settings for parents and inlaws. I think it would be weird to have hubby on limited!

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You had problems with ur SIL?

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unfortunately.

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we add people we haven’t spoken to in like 10 years, but in-laws are an issue:rolleyes:

and im not talking about friends we want to keep in touch…random ppl we add cuz we happen to “know” them.

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considering how a husband-to-be can all of a sudden get all geared up due to a little post made by a wife-to-be … sure as hell in-laws/husband can be a problem in comparison to people you barely talk to in decades

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if you add them you can put them into a list, which will basically limit them to the max and stop them from seeing certain things on your profile.

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When i used to have facebook account..my ex blocked all my female friends. And used to criticize if i added even my female class fellow. O well..i hope she is happy wherever she is..but she made trouble for me there.

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i wont add my spouse or in-laws on my fb. i have my own way of living on fb (not bad by any means) but different people sees things differently. or if i am gonna add them then they will go to "limited profile room" or with lots of restrictions.

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I added my brother in law and then he start adding my friends and then start showing my pics, wall posts to my MIL and SIL...and then they start critisizing my pics and status..so i blocked and deleted him ..

my would be hubby doesnt have any facebook but yes he had seen my profile, pictures and wall and doesnt have any problem with it

I think its better not to add in laws (depends on how they are) ..

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I don’t add random ppl, just the ones I really know. And just the way we are different around our friends compared to with our families or a stranger - as in their is a diff level n type of frankness, similarly it would b wierd and formal if such a figure was around on fb.

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Use one formal/family profile......and one for friends and acting retard......simple

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I have my in-laws on facebook... My BIL, SIL's... MIL and FIL are not on facebook anyway..
I don't have any problem with them being on facebook. I'm comfortable with it....

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LOL…of course! Unlike those “friends”, in-laws have the power and plenty of opportunity to make someone’s life/marriage a living hell based on their interpretation of what they see on FB.

My SO is on my FB. I don’t hide anything from him. SO’s parents don’t use FB. I have his brother/brother’s wife on FB and I’m comfortable showing them everything on my FB. Their lifestyle/values are very similar to ours to nothing to hide there.

However, I have some of MY cousins on FB and I have them on limited profile (especially with my photo albums). With FB, “privacy settings” are your best friend!

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I don't have any Inlaws on my FB, Infact I don't even know who uses it and who doesn't. It's your personal choice, adding them or not shouldn't matter at all.

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Yah I agree.. well said =)