In Laws First Visit- please help!

[muspus]

@Paheli00

@muspus

Plus one is stubborn and arrogant and will make the in-laws (inshallah) feel uncomfortable and the other will try to show me and my sisters up (he has serious issues), so it’s better we leave them out.

If you/your elder sister/cousin have already decided that you will not have either of the husband’s there…then that’s your choice. But in that case, make sure you guys have a good explanation as to why neither of the husbands are present during the Saturday meeting…b/c I can’t imagine his parents not asking where the men are.

How can we put that across in a Desi-friendly way with coming across as losers?