Re: in-laws destroying BIL’s marriage
I think it just stems from jealousy in all honesty. I’m very close to my bhabhi and given that we’re very close in age we have more similarities and interests in common. My MIL is also a very traditional type of woman, wheras she doesn’t like displays of affection between hubby and wife in front of her.. like holding hands while out, feeding each other, etc. MY hubby and I have never done that in front of anyone. But my BIL and Bhabhi made that mistake when they were newlyweds and it just pissed her off…
It’s basically small things which have turned into this sheer hatred for her. Even like simple things like “they didn’t ask my opinion on this… or that”
They had an arranged marriage, while my own was love. So there was never an issue of a fight between the khandaans. But now yeah there is a lot of tension between the two families.