Re: In-laws... and strategies to deal with them.
One, I would limit contact with the MIL asap. Say salam and then run off to shower or pray or something, she sounds like a waste of time. Second, I wouldn't go running to my husband if he was to give me a cold shoulder, instead, I would give him cold shoulder/silent treatment till he realized his family needs to stop messing around. Or better, you need to start standing up for yourself in a firm but not rude way. Tell them off to their faces with a strong attitude so that they back off.