i have seen here, in laws mostly the guys side always branded as monsters. why? because girls parents can be the same so why this biased threads.
and couldnt help to notice almost in all monsters in laws, girl and her family seem to be interested in only the guy, he mostly appear to be very nice son of very nasty parents.
it can be true in some scenarios but not all.
lastly, guys (not the girls) do share stories of your in laws so we can see a pattern here.
I agree. While it's true some DIL are expected to live with in-laws, not all in-laws are bad. I have seen examples where the girl is completely bitter she has to do some work...ex. cooking/cleaning sometimes. Now if she lived alone she would be doing EVERYTHING wouldn't she? So if for now she is living with people....I don't see the big deal in sharing some basic duties with MIL in the household. She does not work & does not have kids. I know it is great to sleep till 2 in the afternoon, and watch tv all day, but really in even your own household that doesn't make sense and is just sheer laziness. Now she goes around town badmouthing her MIL....etc.....about these issues....
She is good friend of mine, but I tell her the truth how she is wrong in some of her behavior.
Also I have seen that the girl wants to completely seperate her husband from his family, but keeps her sisters and family always there and allows her family to interfere alllll the time. That is not an issue as its "her" family. However if the hubby's mother or sibling were to suggest the same thing her family did, all hell will break loose.