Re: In-Law Relations Before Marriage
cat-woman Thank you:flower2:But i hope we’re not scaring off the single girls lol!
**Sadaf** Yea that is scary! Thanks for the advice :)
**sweetdreams** Every 2 days! Wow, i really can't see myself doing that :bummer: And, i don't live anywhere near my fiance's parents but lol, i think even my Mum wud laugh at the idea of taking food over to their place! :D And hey, can't i show them how much i care about them after the bloody wedding!? I mean y is it such a big deal :mad: But thanks for ur reply :blush:
**Shinoo** Wot's his "direct family" exactly...Well that's good for u i guess, but wasn't he happy to get close to ur parents, since he lost his :( Yea i agree, after getting married my whole life will change, and that's when i'll see everyone's true colours haha! That's y i don't wanna get involved before-hand...and before we know it, the wedding will come and go, and then these matters will be going on every day of my life...It's really hard for me too, but i guess with time i will learn...it's the same way with my Mum...and she says that she was like me before she got married, but that time and circumstances and marriage changes ppl (usually for the better)...in our culture i've noticed ppl always talk about getting married in a negative sense, but i'm trying to be positive about stuff, but i just don't wanna be talking to them *before* the wedding that's all, call me anti-social or old-fashioned hehe! But i know as the day comes closer, i will be talking to them more and more, so i just wish there's wasn't this vibe around me, pressuring me to be someone i am not ready to be yet...Thanks for ur advice too :)