why in Isalam there is no permition to do sex before marrage… living in american really makes it difficult to avoid this thing… in school, when u go for date and u know for how long can one avoid this kind of thing… sooner or later he will fall for it then what… 
Re: In isalam
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sooner or later he will fall for it then what......
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then chitrol from ALLAH miyaan :-)
yehi tau Test hay beTaa jee AllaH MiyaaN kee taraf say :-P
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Chitrol would be less of a statement, in fact he would be pulverized - I alwayz tell u this gadha - ur smart & witty
Poor person wants 2 have sex & he posts a thread on GS so that he can satisfy his urge, & make his conscience look like a mirage - if u wanted 2 have sex y not choose thailand or vietnam…? Gori chamri pasand karay ga, no props eat & then when its digested, we’ll see it churn up on da final day of Judgement
I think you can get the answer of why from Qur'an and sunnah. As far as dating goes, you are putting yourself in a difficult situation by going on a date in the first place. As you are a student, your priorities should be on studying your course subjects, not girls/boys. Others should understand that if you explain it to them.
If its you who are wanting to do it, thats another thing altogether.
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If its you who are wanting to do it, thats another thing altogether.
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yes, yes...we will not be your enablers..If you want to do "it" don't expect Guppies to give out a fatwa allowing it.
Re: In isalam
You shouldn’t be dating in Islam either, but even if you do decide to date, it’s all about controlling ones desires. Will power. Why pre-marital sex is not allowed in Islam is quite obvious.
RF, long time no see...how have you been???
Re: why Islam doesn't allow sex before marriage...
1) so that we can curb our carnal desires to humble ourselves
2) so then when we DO get married and have sex, it is enjoyed only with our spouse
3) so that we stay STD-free
4) so that if the woman becomes pregnant, she knows full well as a married woman that only her husband has fathered her child
...etc, etc, etc.
There is alot of pressure in western society to try premarital sex and experiment with sex-related activities. All I can say is, preserve your dignity and self-respect, and don't pursue any activity that you're uncomfortable with or are being pressured into trying. Make any related dicisions based on logic and reasoning. It's definitely not easy given western cultural thinking concerning sexual liberation and what have you though. Nonetheless, stay strong and let Allah mian guide you.
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cuz your first time should be special. and very special if it is with the person you will spend the rest of your life with.. hopefully
thank, only one sensible answer :k: