Firstly if a guy I never met was calling me up that often I'd think he's psycho or really really lonely. And lonely equals ...something wrong. Is he missing a limb? Does he collect stamps? Does he have a third nipple? My mind would race with these possibilities. What if, what if? I generally don't like people, so I would be a sceptic the whole way through.
Then if I ever had the gall to meet him face to face I'd be in for a treat. It's not too petty to have a change of heart based on looks. If he's not the guy, then he's not the one. Let him down easy though because lonely guys bruise easily.
insan… but but but… my thread is not about looks. It’s about the physical chemistry between a girl and a guy… Please read the correction. I hope you understand now :halo:
saimanyc, sorry but even lonely people are humans. I am also lonely. I know it is majorly cz of my own attitude (I dont allow people to get inside my ‘safe boundary’) but does that also make me a psycho?
I meant to say that the person you are talking about deserves a fair treatment. Even if you did not like to continue, it would have been nicer on your part to have informed him as such and parted.
Well, it was your own fault bcz you did not clarify. By your post, it could mean a 100 different things. How was I to know what part of ‘Islamiyat’ you were referring to? Looking at the kind of mullahs we have here, I was expecting anything.
Sorry if my words hurt you but you did not clarify your post. Im gonna edit it now.
I would suggest that you tell him honestly. It will be ultra difficult but at least he will have an honest feedback. Yes he will dub you shallow etc but if he is mature enough he will realize that relationships dont work like that.