Re: Importing a bride/groom
come on! you do know majority of white girls won't date brown guys. Majority don't find them attractive. That's a fact! As far as white girls being the easiest, i agree with you on that. A lot of them are. That's why i said they are not capable of getting worthy white girls, only trash. That's where brown girls beat white girls. Do you really think guys would go for arrange marriages (someone they don't even know) if they could get a lovely girl on their own. I would say most wouldn't. But then again, arranged marriages could do wonders for you. I'm pretty sure you have seen ugly ugly brown bald short guys with beautiful women and then later you find out it was arranged marriage..guy is very successful, ph.d, and her parents agree tot he marriage, whether she likes him or not. I feel sorry for the brown women who have to go thr this crap.
what's wrong with working class white guy? lol
By the way, what are, a "white guy" doing on this forum anyway?.Don't you have any people from your own culture to talk to?.
white ppl arn't welcomed here?
You are most welcome here. In fact it is great to see you take the time to come here and try and understand other cultures. But what I was trying to say is that there are some things about Indian/Pak culture that you would not understand. I will describe it below and can almost guarantee that almost every desi person here would agree with that.
The reason that most people are still into arranged marriages is because it is the best way to guarantee that your son/daughter is marrying into a good family.The parents are looking to the future when they would have grandchildren and only an educated and intelligent son/daughter in-law can produce a similar child.
So a desi guy would have no problem in getting a beautiful girl but of a slightly lower social/cultural class, yet his family decides that it would be better to get a girl from back home, who is of a similar class.
Now an ugly guy is an ugly guy in all universes, doesn't matter if he is white or brown. You mentioned having see some beautiful girls with ugly brown guys. I have seen ugly girls with brown guys too. So, when parents are making a decision for their children, they ignore the temporary aspects such as beauty( I know it is wrong) but ultimately it ends up being the best decision when you look at the divorce rates in arranged marriages. Eventually, the son/daughter, when they mature, they realize the correct decision their parents made for them, when they see themselves leading a stable and happy life.
Now on to the white girls not finding brown guys attractive. As I said before, if the guy is ugly then no girl would find him attractive, white or brown. But if you are saying that white girls do not find any brown guys attractive because of their skin color, then this is offensive to me and all others here.
Also you said that brown guys are not capable of getting worthy white girls. If by worthy you mean educated and refined, then you are totally wrong because they are the only ones open minded enough to date non-white guys. The "trash" ghetto white girls as you said, I suspect are the ones you think find brown guys ugly. Well, believe me as a brown guy, we have not interest in such girls either. We would be ashamed to bring them anywhere close to our families.
