Important!~Na-Mehram cousins-brother-sister relationship~

mey in sawalaon ka jawab janna chahti hoon Islam ki roshni mey key

** muslims r not allowed to talk to na mehrams! dehkna bhi mana hey…aik ghair-iraadi nigah maaf hey lekin doosri nigaah gunah gaar banadeyti hey .mey ney aik jagah perha tha key hijaab key undar rehtey huey muslims apney cousins ko salam kersaktey hein kia yeh baat sahi hey? aur theek hey na mehram sey baat kerna ghunnah hey tou kia apney un cousins sey bhi baat kerna(hijaab key undar rehtey huey) islaamic rules key khilaaf hoga jin ko saga bhai ya behen mana jata hey (jo key yaqeenan nahin hein) aur kia un sey chatting? ya hasi mazak hijaab mey rehtey huey kia ja sakta hey yani aik hud tuk ???**

plz jawab zaroor dijiyeh ga!

First of all, please try to write in normal english, as it is much easier to read as opposed to roman urdu.

Secondly, you said "muslims r not allowed to talk to na mehrams!". Whereever did you get this idea? Do you have any evidence or support to back up this statement, if any?

I don't think this is necessarily true. Muslims are allowed to talk to each other. Although to what extent and on what topics is up for interpretation.

So, first, lets get the basic issue sorted out as to what is the premise of your inquiry. If you have something that says that muslims can not talk to each other, then do let us know. Because I am sure that will be a new thing for most of us.

you should ask fatwas from scholars, posting on this forum where pretty much no one is a schlar will lead to more confusion and fitna.
i am not sure if we can post links to other sites or not, but islam-qa.com is the best islamic site i have seen inshallah.
and mods, fear allah and do not delete this link, it is for the guidance of muslims not some flashy advertisement

Mods delete links :konfused:

People have been posting links for a long time, (especially from that site), so I dont know where you got that idea from.

And for rabika I barely understood the bold part in your post.

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People have been posting links for a long time, (especially from that site), so I dont know where you got that idea from.
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I guess Thanday Mazaq bhai jaan is just being a little paranoid. To the best of my knowledge and recollection, I have never edited any link, especially one that is provided as a support for a religious argument.

See irem’s thread .

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I guess Thanday Mazaq bhai jaan is just being a little paranoid. To the best of my knowledge and recollection, I have never edited any link, especially one that is provided as a support for a religious argument.
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i dont know, i wasnt sure about the policy but i think i heard somewhere that links were forbidden, so i just wrote that line...or i guess they USED to be forbidden? cuz i vaguely remember that once a link in my post was removed...not sure if it was religious or not.

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*Originally posted by ThandyMazaq: *

i dont know, i wasnt sure about the policy but i think i heard somewhere that links were forbidden, so i just wrote that line...or i guess they USED to be forbidden? cuz i vaguely remember that once a link in my post was removed...not sure if it was religious or not.
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Well, its true to an extent. Outside links provided just as publicity or advertisement, especially to other discussion boards, are not permitted, but links provided in support of an argument (e.g. news story, religious website etc) are never removed.

thanks for clearing that up.