importance of religion in relationships

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@Jaanwar

I dont mean to generalize, and apart from some kinky fantasies - hijaban’s are creepy.

^ It might not be completely related to the subject at hand. Ladies and gentlemen, please carry on.

@Croquet

does the five time prayer make you a better muslim? can you be pious without praying 5 times a day, ever heard of a prophet, siant, wali who didnt pray five times a day? why would 5 times a day be a fardh if it did no good to anyone? i mean zobia come on. what is with holier than thou attitude? prejudice can develop anywhere, this is like concluding all religious people are snotty and all non religious humble down to the earth folks. I’d say its important because when you enter a relationship , you are thinkin of raising a family at some point. what good is to come out of the partnership where such basic ideas collide?i truly dislike the implication that anyone who cares for religion or religiousity is suffering from superiority disorder.

praying is a good deed, being soft spoken is a good deed, absence of one shouldnt mullify the other. how can one say that a person who is soft spoken yet not a practising muslim a better person? do we get a special ilham to pass the decree?

Croquet, where have you beeeen??

Excellent, excellent post.