I have seen brides to be start preparing for their stuff wayyyyy and months before the wedding . They make sure they have enough pretty joras for after wedding .i know people are supposed to marry once or they think they will marry once but how important is the pretty joras after wedding.Whats the craze about?
Is it a dudes wish that he wants his wife to be always seen in embroidered blingy clothes all the time
or
the girls are just crazy after pretty kapray be it their shadi or not.
Why do people think girls who focus on the fashion and wedding function do not have any value for marriage itself? if a girl wants to look her best and all, what's teh big deal? It's not possible to look good AND be able to work on your marriage
Also, alot of the time girls are told they can dress up after they're married, i.e, wear makeup, wear certain styles of clothes like sarees, heavy jewelery. hence the wait.
And there's nothing wrong with being excited about teh fashion either u know. a girl shouldn't be made to feel ashamed for wanting to dress up and look nice.
I think when you make clothes and dresses for YOURSELF, to make yourself happy (if it's important to you) then you most def. should. It's when the in-laws expect you to come with million things and clothes, is when it's not right. Some people also use this to "show-off" their daughters/wealth. Girls want to look beautiful, and dream of looking their best after their marriage.
I know some girls who wore no make-up or anything fancy months before their wedding just so they could look extraordinary on their wedding day and after.
I don't see anything wrong with wanting to dress up nicely for yourself........as long as it doesn't go overboard. I also don't see anything wrong in wanting to dress nicely for your spouse. However...there will be days when you just want to be in your pajamas or a pair of sweats or a comfortable but simple shalwar kameez.......and that SHOULD be okay too. Can't be decked out all the time, every single day.
The tradition is people expect to see you a certain way after the wedding...dressed up, blingy, etc.
Plus, I like kapray shapray.
I thought this only applies to the first month or so after the wedding because you're a new 'dulhan' and your in laws want to show you off with all that chamak dhamak.
After the initial months you should still dress nice for yourself and your spouse but it doesn't need to be all bling-blingy.
Clothes is fine but jewelry and makeup at home bothers me. I'm glad I'm not with someone who would expect me to wear it all the time either.
Very important, a husband must make sure his wife has a new outfit to wear every single day of their married life. He must also make sure that a dress/outfit is never ever repeated.
I don't think it's important for a relationship to have pretty clothes, men don't really care about this stuff so if you just want to look pretty or feel pretty then yeah you can buy as many as you like.
