Importance of Agreements reached before marriage

[Ashy2010]

Re: Importance of Agreements reached before marriage

@Muzna

now that’s a very all-encompassing judgement…
what happens when izzat dar and zaban kay pakkay log face circumstances that are beyond their control? would it be wrong for an izzat dar and zaban ka pakka husband to ask his wife to stay home and look after his soon to pass, ill father?

seriously now…one should think before making such broad condemnations.

Occassional disagreements like the one you mentioned can be easily dealt with proper understanding between husband and wife. The situation you mentioned obviously requires understanding from the wife and she will be cooperating with her husband if she has even little insaaniyat (although many people would argue that husband’s fathers khidmat and care is the responsibility of the husband only and not his wife).

I am talking about completely nullifying what was agreed at the time of marriage about certain issues. What if the husband completely stops the wife from doing job although it was agreed that the wife can continue with her career after marriage. Such issues can damage a relationship and happens in arranged marriages.