so many negative responses!! c'mon okay, so say a guy wants to get out and you support him initially, it is still possible that he may make a good husband and eventually get a suitable job if he has the right qualifications, no?
Depends on their qualifications and if they are recognised in whichever country they are moving to.
I know of one guy who came over from Pakistan who has actually made something of himself, will never be able to support his family on his income alone, but he came with nothing. Unfortunately, from what I have seen, his is a rare case.