IMP: Saving your self from Rape/Murder!

SAFETY FOR GIRLS

Ladies… In light of the recent rape and murder of Pratibha Srikanth Murthy, an employee of the business process outsourcing arm of Hewlett Packard in Bangalore, I think it is important to read the following info for your own safety.

Things women should know to stay safe: Please take the time to read these pointers. There may just be one or two you hadn’t thought of. After reading this, forward it to someone you care about. It never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.

  1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it!

  2. If a robber asks for your handbag, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you… he is probably more interested in your handbag than you and he will go for the handbag. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

  3. If you are ever thrown into the boot of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm through the hole and start waving. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

  4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their cheque book, or making a list). DON’T DO THIS! A predator could be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, and attack you. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

  5. A few notes about getting into your car in a car park:
    Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and check the back seat.
    If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most attackers surprise their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
    Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the shop, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

  6. ALWAYS take the lift instead of the stairs. Stairwells are horrible places to be alone (and the perfect crime spot.)

  7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

  8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

  9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her ‘Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door." The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street & get run over. The policeman said, "We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door. "He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby’s cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear babies’ cries outside their doors when they’re home alone at night. Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby.

I’d like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as well.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry. The above is directed at women but remember, guys you may also be targeted the same way or your fiance/wife.

Re: IMP: Saving your self from Rape/Murder!

useful information..thanks for sharing

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yea but with number 2, what if he has a gun? while you're running away he might shoot you in the back...you can't even dodge a bullet when it comes from behind you

some of the others are really good things to know...thanks for posting this :)

Re: IMP: Saving your self from Rape/Murder!

I always carry a hairspray in my bag, a tiny one. Our law forbids the usage of pepper-spray unlike Germany. Trust me, its very HANDY! He wont be able to "see" for several hours, perhaps even 24 hours from then.

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Pathani, thats a good one! I was personally much nastier - I was being stalked when I was in college - scary thing - and so I carried a spray bottle of pure ammonia.

another helpful tip - learned from my Seifu in kung fu class - stomp on the top of the foot of your attacker, where the skin is thin, on the top of the arch. There are SO many nerve endings in this area that a good stomp will just about cripple even the heartiest of attackers.

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I would say a kick in the nuts will be the most effective, with a doubt.

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ya...

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:eek:

well another tip is here. watch the clip from time: 3:39-4:55
its from movie cellular

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My sister always advises me to carry a whistle if I'm going out late somewhere... you'd be surprised how much noise and attention you can attract with that!

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May Allah swt protect all women from bad men.
to be alert and protective of yourself, begins with you selecting where you go and how you come across. one should never be weak nor trusting anyone.
dark places and even a rowdy crowd can be prime places for violent predators.
always be keen of your surroundings.
and a self defense karate course is absolutely essential.
in DV situations, being able to call for help has to happen by alert and concerned surrounding people.
best,

Dushwari

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I had such a weird nite..I parked in the garage and was closing it..my daughter opened her door..but the garage door when there were only about a feet or so left started opening up (and usually that happens if my husband opens it with his opener..and I knew he just left couldnt be home this early)..but anyway I was so freaked out..got my daughter back and drove away.I had such a weird feeling today:(...it wasnt the door sensor too..I dont know what happened but I did the self defence thing..later used our dog to check out the reason and after he looked everywhere got out..I used to be very lenient in keeping an eye around..but I do now a lot..Thinking of getting me a mase spray again:)