Question… say a guy thinks about a girl sexually. He day dreams about her body and acts “the act” with her in his imgination and never tells her or admits that he is in love with that girl.
My question is …
Is he not a normal person?
Is he in love with thsi girl?
Is he in love but shy to tell her?
Is he full of lust only and there is no feelings for her in his heart ?
Do all guys have these fantasies and it is quiet normal to think and imagine having sex with any girl …It has nothing to do with feeling? I mean you don’t feel afacation for her but you use her body (in imagination) just to satisfy your sexual needs ?
hope i am not so unclear to you guys.
please serious replies:-) and thanks in advance for teh serious comments.
you all have a good one …
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Re: Imagination
Its a normal thing, dont worry.
Hmm I think whenever you see a lady whpo you feel is attractive you do get "excited" but I never got to the level of fantasising about a specific gal..
However I had fantasies with my "dream gal"...someone that wasn't real or a famous personality but some lady that I felt that I woudl share this with one day...now that I've found her I think of her...yes it is a sexual desire...but it grows out of the fact that I love her else her face and her essence wouldn't be in my mind.
We've talked about our "fanastises"..not explicitly but somehow she knows what I'm thinking and when she does it just feels like we're sharing something special....:blush"
waxiiii sharam kar :nono:
j/k its normal… not that i do it but still its normal 
its all lust buddy
if you really like/love someone you wont be jerking off thinking bout them
Darta kiyun hai ray?
ok ,
so if I am thinking about a girl taht i am having S-x and bla bla bla and i told her even that I feel and fantasise her like thsi does that mean i am in love with her? OR NO?
wax, for males fantasizing is normal. If a woman remotely attracts a guy he would most certainly think about having physical encounters with her. It can be somthing very gentle from thinking "how would it be to kiss her hand, her lips" to somthing more elaborate i.e. sexual intercourse at an ideal place perhaps.
Do not give too much thought into this son. Let the thing flow, enjoy the lust isnt the sensation sweet?. CArry on with life as normal...dont let it bother you. You dont genuienly like (love?) a person ( usually ) for her body... the experience is usually deeper, there is a deeper connection somewhere that unites the 2 beings that doesnt mean u cant feel lusty for the person you genuienly like. I am not experinced in such matters as i have never been in love but thats what i thought....
Thank you Gamma youare enough descriptive ... and don't call me SON dear!!! because I am a female:)
Thanks to all who replied it helped me knowing men a bit .
oh my mistake 
.. glad it helped.
It’s because of this “imagination” that people wet their beds 
not really night emissions are caused by physical changes at puberty
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*Originally posted by Gamma Dilation: *
not really night emissions are caused by physical changes at puberty
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are you talking about wet dreams?
omg....i dunno i knda associated all this stuff about wet dreams, imagination, incest, etc etc wid american guys n families........kinda biased i guess but u kno i was wonderin....if the media didnt let out stuff like porn n things would guys still b jerkin off? n how were the guys bak in da days like in 1400..........jus a randon thot...ne1 think bout that?
^ we are all humans and what applies to the american families applies to desi or any other culture. And in 1400s didnt guys have a penis?. Ofcourse visual stimulas does cause an increase in masturbation. But still scientists are only beginning to understand that masturbation is a natural phenomena. Think of it as periods , men need to let out that built up sexual energy and sperm. If its not released through "jerking off" it is emitted in wet dreams.
thnx 4 settin me straight …