Sara, I feel for you. Have you had any of the 'let's see what's in her suitcase and help ourselves' business yet? I mean, excuse me, but taking makeup that someone else has been using regularly is just unhygienic.
omg! totally!
i bought some makeup at the last minute from duty free shop at the NY airport and the second day after i landed in pakistan my aunt saw me unwrap it from my bag. she SNATCHED it from me... "hai allah!!! clinique...mujhe day donaaa...." ...how can u say no to an aunt u met after 5 yrs. anyways in return she took me desi clothes shopping and to dinner.....the parathas and qeema was worth it.
two of my aunts had a cat-fight over my bag- i ended up giving it to one of them and the other didnt speak to me till i sent her one from here later ..
Yea but thats what them aunties like best, infact it would make their day u know, “look at this girl, she’s all grown up, but tch tch keeps her room like a kid.” Stoopid aunties, I tell ya.
Okay to be honest, what really really pissed me off was her comment , that my dad made this room according to my size (its the biggest room in the house, it was sposed to be for my parents but i claimed it first :D).. im jus appalled that she had the nerve to say such a hurtful and stupid and retarded thing.. it didnt hurt as much as it made me angry … and knowing my parents, they’ll jus laugh it off..
...something similar to this happened when i last went to Pakistan back in '98, some distant relatives or god know's who came to our house for dinner, well to cut a long story short some how during a brief tour around the house one of the women guests was caught in my sisters room trying to break into her suitcase which happened to have some expensive clothes and jewellery in it , i only heard about this the following day as i'd gone out after dinner, anyway days later we heard she was beaten upon by her husband as we heard this was not the first time she had done this.
KEEP YOUR ROOM LOCKED AT ALL TIMES...why would your mother show people your roomm anyway? thats soo pathetic...you should speak up so that people stop making mean comments about you n your room...i can't believe you tolerate all that shytee
i hate how everyone wants to use your stuff whenever you go to pakistan...like com'on people why would you want to use someone elses make-up and stuff i mean they prolly have their germs on it..that soo gross and cheap..and one other thing i hatee...they are not even politee...and they don't even ask you if they could use somthing of yours..SO PATHETIC
lol..the stores are funny...the worst for me was when my mother's aunt comes up to me and says "if you give me this ring (gold) i will do dua for you that you will have kids.."...i retort "thats ok...i do enough dua for myself...."...lol..
I am also a ABCD (although more of a D than an A) and I would definitley care what my mother would say/think; also I would expect my wife to treat my mom like hers. Barfee, I think you’re giving her bad advice by telling her not to care for her future Mother in law. I think girls have to adjust to a new family after they get married and to pick a fight with the Queen of the family (by not caring about what she thinks) is a wrong way to go about it.
(its the biggest room in the house, it was sposed to be for my parents but i claimed it first :D).. im jus appalled that she had the nerve to say such a hurtful and stupid and retarded thing.. it didnt hurt as much as it made me angry … and knowing my parents, they’ll jus laugh it off..
