Re: I’m shocked
Muqa Bhai,
As a widow and mother of a son…her life is actually hard.
If she found a man that would be willing to care for her and her son…WILLINGLY…then I am not sure I see what you were “not expecting this from him”.
Your post makes it sound like he has disappointed you, surprised you and let the people around him down because this woman is not only a widow but a mother and also older than him.
If you’re concerned about his well being because marrying someone who is older, a parent and widowed is not right (in some families its not preferred) then talk to him about your concerns.
Personally, I am not sure what to say.