Im sad:(

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think positive natykhan

you like the jora or not if you dont wear it your susraal will hold a grudge against your whole life

and if you wear there will be happy from day one .. what else do you want

plus jora doesnt matter its the persons personality inside of the jora wear the jora carry the jora sooo gracefully that it looks better then HSY
bring that ooomph in your own way

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There's a guy who got killed during a terrorist attack in a mosque in Pakistan one week before his wedding! And the night before he was out distributing wedding cards

My heart goes out to his entire family esp. his fiancee :(

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And I heard another story in which the girl's father passed away due to heart failure on the day of her wedding. The male relatives decided to let the nikah proceed and after that broke the news of his death and bought the "mayyat" on stage, and all the guests participated in the namaaz-e-jinaaza

I'm sorry for narrating these stories, but maybe we all need a reality check, that things could have been worser

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i dont get what difference will the HSY label make in your life , your marriage ? what does it matter if it is a copy ????

i know everyone has their own choice and dreams but if for once everyone stopped giving so much importance to material side of weddings and thought about the real meaning of nikkah we wouldnt have so many marriage issues thread if life 1

sorry dont mean to hurt anyone but this one HSY lengha has made you so sad ??? it is only a piece of cloth , that you will wear for a few hours and then neatly tuck away in your cupboard forever

please dont create an issue over one silly HSY lengha

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Its true, it happens. When I was shopping for my Valima outfit, the lady told my mom that it was a HSY design and from then on my mom thought it was an original and I had to correct her everytime saying..."noo mom this is just a copy OF the original, its not HSY." It was an innocent mistake because they don't know or have an eye about this stuff at all, and her for when the lady said it, it was a proud moment because she knew how much I wanted an HSY gown. So I mean...who knows, sometimes there are those MILs that are purposely cheap and then there are those who really don't know black from white about this stuff so I would assume...give her a break... Like everyone else has said....wear it with a brave face and move on because in the end your patience will count for a lot more than this dress ever did. The wedding days come and go and then when the "honeymooning" phase is over, life hits and if your bitter about this already now, then that may pave a down ward spiral for a lot of other things that happen in your married life.

Handle it with grace, this is just the valima outfit, you still have your wedding day so try your best not to make mountains out of mole hills because this first year of marriage is always the hardest but no one ever tells you that! So you think you know...but you have no idea.... even in a close net family, everyone has their problems and complaints and its all in the way you handle the situation.

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I don't get why inlaws dont ask the person who is actually going to wear the dress what they want to wear.......?

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My cousin just got married! she had her wedding joras made from HSY!
they are for sale! in awesome condition!
http://lahore.olx.com.pk/hsy-wedding-gowns-for-sale-iid-193757512 <----- for details

please spread!

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My cousin just got married! she had her wedding joras made from HSY! original HSY joras!
they are for sale! in awesome condition!
http://lahore.olx.com.pk/hsy-wedding-gowns-for-sale-iid-193757512 <----- for details

please spread!

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Thank you so much girls, I really appreciate your input. Your advice is all very rational - which is what I need :)

I have given order for my new walima dress.

I wish I have gotten the original reception dress I fell inlove with:)

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Just wondering, are the in-laws upset that you are ordering a new walima dress? how did they react when you told them you weren't pleased?

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wow well ab problem solve hogai :D.. iam sooo happy for you .. when you getting married ?

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really? didnt your in laws said anything? who is paying for it?

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:lajawab:
1st & last sensible advise :cobra: