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Hey ami! I'll respond privately instead of derailing your thread :)
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ok thanks
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I am glad you are all safe. Hope you can sort things out for the stuff you lost like mama said.
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blossom i sent you a pm
it really sucks to lose pictures...i really love the memories they bring back. but i feel like you are always in a mode of regretting things. i remember you posted earlier about regretting your wedding, regretting loss of ultrasound pics, etc etc. Of course i 100% agree with you; nobody is happy upon losing something but the thing is that you are missing the overall picture--spending so much time mired in regrets about the past, will interfere with your enjoyment of the present. the important thing to do is to find out what steps you can take to make the rest of your life more happy and enjoyable...is there anything you want to accomplish by the next year?
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No worries, past is in the past, fill your rooms with new pictures and new memories, as you continue to live your life.
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Memories are created, let them create in your mind. Objects just facilitate the remembrance process. Do not let yourself be soo dependant on objects, but instead look at your children and your husband and i am sure the memories will automatically start rushing back in to your mind. What is more important, some material things or the fact that alhumdullilah all of you are safe and together with each other. As time passes by you will accumulate more things to remember. Enjoy the present, and remember the past from a distance.
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thanks you guys for the advice:) Yes it is sad when you loose things you cherish the most and when I am not busy I think about it more. I am glad when I get occupied with my studies again.
Jalebi: Yes, I am studying at th moment but have been on hols , I will start soon so I will think less I suppose. Thanks for the advice lovely ladies:)