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Also...I would encourage you to hit him up for child support. Whether he likes it or not, he has a responsibility towards his daughter and I would like to see how exactly he will take his gf to Dubai, Turkey etc when he is paying child support. I would then like to see just how long said gf sticks around and ,after that, how long it takes this moron to realise how miserable he is going to be for the rest of his life.
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you should get some counseling, join support group, pray to Allah strength and patience. He has blessed you with the most precious gift you could ever imagine, cherish every moment with your daughter, get out of the bed and figure out what you will do with the rest of your life and how you want to raise your daughter. I know it is easier said then done...
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^He already went to Turkey/Italy/Dubai with his gf earlier this year. And if he did not marry her, then that was a haraam-honeymoon....and in that case, as tacky as it may sound, kya pata dil bhar gaya ho us ka ya phir aagay jaa kar bhar jaaye aur us larki se tang aa jaaye. The other day a friend said k duniya bayhiss ho gayi hai. What's wrong with people? Is it poor upbringing? Is it lack of iman? Lack of fear in God? Look at Op's thread and even Khazar's thread. What is wrong with folks that turns them so cold toward those that have rights on them. Scary times we live in.
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I mean counseling for your own sanity. Join a support group.
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Dekho... jiss aadmi nay tumhari qadr nahi ki tum usski waja say aapni zindagi barbaad ker rahi ho? Kya tumhari life uss shaksh per khatem ho gaii hai?
Jo shaksh ab tumhari zindagi ka hissa nahi hai.. usskay liye aapna time aur energy barbaad mutt karo. Jassosi mutt karo kay woh kya ker raha hai, yeh dekho kay TUM KHUD kya ker rahi ho aapnay saath.
Aaj tum jin halaat main ho, inn main say tum ko bahir koi bhi nahi nikaal sakta jab tak kay TUM KHUD innsay bahir nikalna na chahoo. Jo kal guzar gaya hai kya tum ussko badal sakti ho? Magar tum aapnay aanay walay kal ko zaroor badal sakti ho, tumhara aur tumhari bacchi ka kal tumharay haath main hai.