Re: I'm jumbled up and very tense :(
Next time you go, rent your own place so just you and your family live in peace. Also stand up for yourself a little bit BUT with a 'mheeti zubaan'.
I have a couple of relatives like this in pakistan, they used to taunt me all the time because i was polite, if i tried to argue back i became 'badtameez' but if you use a mheeti zabaan then you wont be badtameez and no will will say anything to you.