I had a similar situation..... when me and my siblings were in junior high our dad took us to pakistan for the summer and when the summer was over he packed his bags and told us he was going back and that he was gona leave us there...... so he totaly blackmailed us into going and we ended up staying there for 6 years, and on top of all that we had to stay with his family his 3 brothers and their families, while our dad was there everyone was really nice to us but when he left we were tortured we had to listen to tanay's and sometimes when my mom left to go to another city to visit her family they didnt give us food..... my dads family tried everything possible to destroy our lives by messing with our studies which they did, they convinced my dad that we should be home schooled and my dad was ok with it, so they took us out of school and got us a tutor and after a few months they stopped the tutor from comming so we dont get our education, we were there for 6 damn years without education without our dad and without any help and support, my mom died 4 years after we went there, and we were there alone, you have nooooooooo idea what my dads family put us through we felt like their servants, we cried day and night...... in the end they forced my sister to get married which she did, and my brother came back, I was stuck there and my dad was forcing me to get married and actually went to the point of abusing me because I said NO, some how I ran away and came back to the US and stayed with my khala and after a few months my khala started treating me like a servant and did everything she possibly couldve done to make my life a living hell then I had no choice but to come back to my dad ( in the US) now i got my GED and am trying to build up my life....... well then some of you guys know!!
All I have to say is just keep one thing in your mind that there are a lotttt of people in worse situations then you are and if they can get through this then so can you..... be strong and try to ignore what ever they say! Dont make your life miserable because of them do whatever you have to do and try to be happy! I totalyyyyy understand what your going through and it does make your head spin! but sweety trust me put whatever they say in one ear and take it out the other! I hope life gets easier for you Good luck!