Im going to try and be open minded but I do have my reservations.

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Re: Im going to try and be open minded but I do have my reservations.

@inspiron

By independent I mean, I dont want to ask someones permission alll the time before I head out to the shops or to the gym for example, let them know yes but not permission if that makes sense. I also would like to have a social life independent of my partner as well as some mutual friends too.

Unless you are going to dicso clubs :D, you wont have that problem of permission. I mean honestly my wife never needs my permission about going somewhere, she knows her responsibilities and priorities and with that knowledge, if she wants to go somewhere (gym, salon, friends house), she just has to inform me , and that is it. And I know that most of desi hubbies are like that.

See as long as your activities do not reflect self centerdness all the times, I can guarantee you that your hubby would be happy for you doing that