Let our mil relax. talk to her again. maybe you can sell one of the outfit and buy another one so you dont wear 2 of the same color!
I dont want to wear red to my shaadi but what do I wear if I dont wear red?
I am sad. Actually deeply frustrated, irritated, depressed...you name all the unhappy moods and you'll find me suffering from all of them!
The wedding dress my in laws have brought is nearly of the same color that we've bought..The only difference is mine is georgette and theirs is net.
It happened so because we being conservative Pathans, the brides-to-be aren't included in any selection process by the groom's side but my mom had seen it much before we bought ours..My mil said she'll get it changed if we don't like anything about it but momma appreciated it then..And when we went to purchase ours, the piece I liked had the same color! We remembered what my mil had said about changing n stuff so, reluctant, we got the same color! And even the showroom owner said they have single pieces throughout, as in, they don't have same designs in different colors!
I've tried persuading, sweet talking my fiance a lot in getting the color changed but he says he cannot do much about it because his mom is a bit irritated that we knowingly committed that mistake and that she's not sure if the designer will compromise anyhow!
All my enthusiasm and zeal has fizzled out unbelievably..I even had a heated arguement with my fiance last night but now I feel sorry coz he's a sweet guy and shouldn't be bearing the brunt of all...
Please pray for me...lol!