Hi Peepz.
I just have to lighten up my heart about this.
You all know im married for 6 yrs almost 7 and i dont have
a child yet i go see the doctor for this and take pills for it
they checked my hubby 2. Well now i have to do other check up
and that is a inward check up. And now im all stressed up about that
when the doctor told me that i have to do this i was like feel
i want to cry. The doctor said to me u want a child is’nt and i said yes.
But now i feel i dont think i have much for a child if i have to do this.
My appoiment is 2morrow 2:30 pm.
I feel so stressed up and feel i want to cry im very scared i never
had a inward check up u know. Sigh And my hubby can’t go with me coz he has to work.
And my mother is also bussy.
Im very stressed!!! what to do about that??
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It's only a check-up and not some surgery. So, not to worry. Just grab a magazine when you get to the doctor's office and relax.
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I know its only check up but still i can relax.
Muje issi waqt bohot tension hore hi hai.
I forget to put in my thread they will make a picture
of my womb and ovum.
Actually, I've heard the opposite Funguy. Female doctors tend to be more sensitive when it comes to handling patients with these kinds of checkups. Who knows!
Anyway, Nilu, just make sure there is a nurse in there with you when the doctor is doing the checkup.
Hmmm i live in Holland and i think here they ain't that
rough but i m not sure coz i never did inward check up
b4 like i told u.
Once when i was in Pakistan for holidays i checked up there
and i had a lady doctor but she was very rough to me.
relax hun, i know its scary but it for ur own good. Its better to get it chiecked out and know whatever the complication is that is holding u both from concieving. Once u know, it will be easier to treat it and plus will have some sort of peace of mind that u both know the problem and u both are tryin ur best to make it better. As scary as it may seem, trust me, u will be glad once it over. Just relax. Its just a test. I know easier said then done, but try askin ur hubby to take a day off or go to work late if ur appt is early.
It's nothing to worry about Nilu, it might seem a bit danuting now but surely a few minutes discomfort is worth it if you are trying to conceive.
You'll have to go through much worse when you give birth so this is a little taster of things to come. (Oops - that statement wasn't meant to put you off having children by the way)
It's quite a regular check-up: nothing to worry about, and it doesnt have any negative effects whatsoever. So just relax. Only disconfort you could feel, will be cuz of ur own tension.
and the picture they're gonna take, it's nothing more than an ultra-sounds image.......so no shame about that.
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
Hmmm i live in Holland and i think here they ain't that
rough but i m not sure coz i never did inward check up
b4 like i told u.
Once when i was in Pakistan for holidays i checked up there
and i had a lady doctor but she was very rough to me.
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niks om bang te zijn hoor! Ze gaan met zo'n dun lang apparaatje naar binnen en kunnen zo een beter zicht krijgen. Het doet helemaal GEEN pijn en is niet erg. Je moet alleen ontspannen, dat is alles.
niks om back te zijn hoor! Ze gaan met zo'n dun lang apparaatje naar binnen en kunnen zo een beter zicht krijgen. Het doet helemaal GEEN pijn en is niet erg. Je moet alleen ontspannen, dat is alles.
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Hoi Nescio.
Ja ik weet hoe het gaat ze hadden mij een foldertje meegegeven
waar alles op staat en hebben mij ook uitgelegd hoe het gaat.
Maar toch lijkt me zo pijnlijk enzo.
En voel me echt niet op mn gemak.
