hmmmmm situation is sad and unfair with you too. But i think the gal is not that innocent. She can very easily voice her feelings if she is really interested and happy with you. Or at least protest that she doesnt want a new guy for herself all of a sudden when she has already gone emotionally attached to a person her parents had selected for her one n half yr back. Sorry if this hurts but I think its her decision to marry the other guy.