Re: im a strong man! But what happened next?
to the original poster-
if it was not meant to be it was not meant to be, regardless of reasons whether people were shallow or whether they were not and were looking for someone else..the end result is the same.. the chica got married to someone else.
Now..the simplest thing to do is to find someone else..I believe in love and all that, however I dont think there is this one ideal person that you will find and if you cant be with that person life is over and no one compares, billions of people in the world and really at the end of the day people are not that unique.
being upset, sad, and depressed is natural, but then you have to come out of it, be yourself and meet others..and btw if you have this thing hanging over your head most girls will stay away, very few ppl want to hook up with someone who is still in love with an ex.
so step 1
sort yoursself out
step 2
enjoy life
step 3
meet people
step 4
find someone
each step will make you happier.
but it cant happen if u dont take step 1