Ignored by your friends

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Re: Ignored by your friends

@redvelvet

Like I said…if you want to give this one more chance…then do so. Talk to them about how you feel and if they STILL ignore you after that…then obviously they have no consideration for you even after you expressed your concerns…and it would be an even more clear indication for you to drop them and move on with your life.

Does keeping them in your life make you feel good? Is it helping you in any way? Is it some “farz” that you have be friends with them? No. Value and respect yourself enough to know when you should let of things.

I talked to her today but in a non serious way… but she took me seriously and asked about thing which i haven’t shared with her… but we couldn’t talk in detail… i think your suggestion is good… i should talk to her in detail…it will work… because to leave my friends is not easy for me.

@nadeemnirvana

You will meet new people and friends, its gauranteed. In life you will only meet a handfull of people you will truly call friends for life.

Alhamdulillah i have large circle of friends… with whom i can share my secrets and problems… may be thats why i feel their ignorance a lot.

@Ashy2010

You must have some good friends also who would be there for you always. Focus on them.

Yes ashy i have many good friends with whom i can share my life experiences good or bad … and i really love them a lot…

@mirage

Be a friend to all, socialize, but dont expect them to be or call them your best friends until they prove to be. Like all other relationships, friendship demands equality too. So if your friends are not as nice to you as they are to each other, and they dont treat you the way they treat each other, maybe your best friend vacancy is still vacant and needs to be filled in

You are right Mirage i guess they are not my best friends but yes good friends. They are nice with me too… whenever i am with them they talk to me in fact they tell me everything…i am their RAAZ Bank but when it comes to my problem and secrets they never ask. I didn’t notice it before but few months back i started taking notice when i tried to tell my other friend an incident and that friend just ignored it and didn’t ask me details. From that time i realized that they don’t know about me anything. and yes my best friend vacancy si still empty but in uni… otherwise i have many friends those i can categorize my best friends.