Ignored by your friends

[cutefifa]

Re: Ignored by your friends

@redvelvet

Despite that reality, human beings still have a need for socialization.

CF, do you usually ask them about their problems/what’s going on their lives? If not, then it could encourage them to ask about yours in return. Is is possible that you frequently bring up your problems and at some point they became tired of it? Excessive venting can drain even your best friends of energy. I’m** not **accusing you of anything; just putting forth possibilities.

I’d suggest that you talk your friends about how you feel as this would give them the chance to work with you and correct the problem. After the discussion…if you STILL feel that they’re not reciprocating, then you need to find new friends. Rather than chase after something and causing yourself to feel hurt time and again, channel that energy into more positive activities. It may not seem like it now, but I’ve found that it’s liberating to let go of toxic relationships…saves you time.

They don’t know about my problems. i never vent in front of them… i am very happy-go-lucky girl type in front of them mostly. Once we talk and i try to tell her my problem very first time… but she didn’t take any interest. But whenever she is upset… she calls me and discuss her every problem. i remember when her cousin died she called me at 1 am to tell me the news… she really admires me… but may be she is self centered girl who thinks that only she has problems. I don’t know but i think i should talk to her. She doesn’t know any of my secret.