Re: Ignored by your friends
Despite that reality, human beings still have a need for socialization.
CF, do you usually ask them about their problems/what’s going on their lives? If not, then it could encourage them to ask about yours in return. Is is possible that you frequently bring up your problems and at some point they became tired of it? Excessive venting can drain even your best friends of energy. I’m** not **accusing you of anything; just putting forth possibilities.
I’d suggest that you talk to your friends about how you feel because this would give them the chance to work with you in correcting the problem. After the discussion…if you STILL feel that they’re not reciprocating, then you need to find new friends. Rather than chase after something and causing yourself to feel hurt time and again, channel that energy into more positive activities and people. It may not seem like it now, but I’ve found that it’s liberating to let go of toxic relationships…it saves you time and further heartache.