scenario: a proposal seeking couple for their good for nothing son come up to a 19 year old girl’s parent’s house. she goes to college and has aspiration to study abroad in UK.
they ask everything about her and her parents’ back ground.
after looking at the girl, they inquire about the other daughter as in also taking a look at her for their son.
and then they question, who will work and when will she get her nationality.
this couple is originally from lahore and not too educated. they own a business and son has been working consulting contracts in entry level IT.
how do you educate such a family about the ethics of proposal making for someone’s daughter?
what right does such greedy, absolutely ignorant people have to see the sister compete for their son?
what role can boys/ men adap in preventing their parents from acting as insolent and ignorant people in the context of prospect seeking?
just when will Pakistani double standard parents will come to realize that their own son/s can be humiliated as such, as well?
reflect your thoughts on this and please objectively come up with soltions that we all can put in place to check this when our daughters and sons may get sttled withone another, through the conventional manner of arranged marriage.
Best,
Dushwari