Re: if ..
Well on the surface the question seems good but in reality you are saying,
“Sommeone wants to marry you for your looks. But you are actually dumb and have nothing to offer and you are insecure.”
The answer is NO.
P.S. Why would I feel de-valued? I have a lot more goodies to offer besides looks. 
Go ahead love me for my looks!
Besides the ball is now in my court! 