say if someone only wanted to marry you cause of the way u looked .. they hardly care to know anything else about u .. would u do it ? .. would this not make u feel de-valued ? .. or is this acceptable in our culture for woman n im totally off the mark n sound strange saying this is a turn-off ? ..
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It would be a barbaric culture indeed where this is acceptable. This isn't marriage, this is a sex contract. Remember, beauty goes with age.
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Yeah how dare people look at physical attractiveness when wanting to marry someone. No way Hollywood would establish such a stereotype! 
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I spot a White Knight!
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Attraction has it’s place (among other qualities) in a relationship. The same argument could also be made about women who marry men only because of their money.
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I dont think anybody would EVER marry someone for ** ONLY LOOKS ** .... Love grows once people get to know eachother.... We all have good and distinct qualities in us that our lover would die for.
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“Oooh…I like diamonds 
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and i spot jealousy ! .. hey its not my fault god didnt make u attractive .. u n hmm .. well we all know about how pretty she is .. LOL
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say if someone only wanted to marry you cause of the way u looked .. they hardly care to know anything else about u .. would u do it ? .. would this not make u feel de-valued ? .. or is this acceptable in our culture for woman n im totally off the mark n sound strange saying this is a turn-off ? ..
how wud i find out if someone just liked me for my look n nothing else? im supposing this is a rishta scenerio here. if its love n love is only for the appearance then i wud nt believe its love cuz i dnt think u can love someone just based on how they look.
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Don't let these thoughts worry you love, I am sure this is not something you need to worry about <3
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it's like being married to a woman that's hot and beautiful all combined into one but that person treats you like crap, sees you as lower than pond scum
or a man that's rich, buys you expensive gifts or anything you want, but then abuses you physically, mentally, verbally, emotionally.
Isn't such a pretty picture for both the men and women married to such people. so i think more than looks and money is hopefully looked at b4 plunging into marriage.
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I know a lot of men [even in my family] who, when asked by their parents as to what kind of a girl they would like to marry, said she has to be beautiful and that's it.
Well I can tell you that one can be beautiful and smart at the same time, but the kind of women they got, oh well, let's just say, they got exactly what they wanted, nothing less, nothing more. :@:
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people have spoken.i need not to.
ok well i will feyr vi. So u know even when people start a relationship they find each other attractive otherwise they wudnt stand the sight of each other and chances of being in love wud be impossible
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It would be foolish to say looks dont matter at all.
However, if that is the only thing being considered..................I wouldnt do it.
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Well on the surface the question seems good but in reality you are saying,
“Sommeone wants to marry you for your looks. But you are actually dumb and have nothing to offer and you are insecure.”
The answer is NO.
P.S. Why would I feel de-valued? I have a lot more goodies to offer besides looks. Go ahead love me for my looks!
Besides the ball is now in my court! 