what if you got married and it has just been like 2 years and your husband dies. and your parents are dead and your siblings don’t care about you. and you don’T have close friends because once you got married you didn’t really care much for anyone else except your husband and your family. and you do not live with your husbands family and nor are they around anywhere near.
what would you do.
how would you feel.
would you be able to go on living.
would you still feel like living.
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oh ****tttt thats quite a situation.
Yes life still is worth living.
why
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No reasons. But feels like it.
You know such a person who has suffered all that ?
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when Allah is always there to take care of u then y worry??
say " Ya Allah tu ne he paida kiya hae ab tu he sambhal" and chill..
maa ji (my grand ma) ek sehr sunaati theen
" uth baandh kamar q darta hae
phir dekh khuda kya krta hae"
no i don't.
this is a hypothetical situation.
kia pata kal kia hojai.
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o why o why do we think of such hypothetical situations..
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Yes, life is worth living and I would use that time to figure out why Allah swt has me on this earth. When my time to go is here, no one will be able to stop it. But until then, we all have a purpose. What is it? I would find a way to help someone else who needs it, get closer to my family, adopt a child, work, volunteer, etc.
Trust me, Allah swt has a plan for everyone.
" uth baandh kamar q darta hae phir dekh khuda kya krta hae"
i donnot understand this. please translate.
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You have to find something to do with yourself. Maybe get re-married at some point or another adopt children. Help make someone elses life worth living...
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one too many ifs
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oh my what a morbid question.
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this reminds me.... couple of days ago my husband was telling me that he already bought a piece of land for his grave and he already thought of donating his eyes after death.
all the important paper work r alredy done.....
i was so mad but he was like i had to tell you this so you would know.....
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i would probably do what DB said, but some situation that is!
this reminds me.... couple of days ago my husband was telling me that he already bought a piece of land for his grave and he already thought of donating his eyes after death. all the important paper work r alredy done.....
i was so mad but he was like i had to tell you this so you would know.....
were u mad because he told u late, fter the paperwork was done etc?
mithi_muskaan No it wasnt about the paperwrk or even abt donation.....
it was abt him talking abt his own death which made me mad......
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^ i can never understand that. is it a taboo to talk bout death?
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at the beginning it is going to be quite difficult as this will b a major set back but life will go on, somehow i'll manage to live as nowadays world has made most of us very independent, nobody has enough time to make you feel his/her presence. so, life will go on, i will make it go by sorting out some work. waisay bhi husband nay kuch tu chorra ho gaa, **i wish.................**
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**Things could be worse:
What if you weren't able to walk?
What if you weren't able to talk?
What if you weren't able to see?
As for your hypothetical situation, take refuge in arts i.e. travel photography or pursuing knowledge. Its an amazing feeling when you learn a new language or learn to draw or paint. Exploring your creative side is somewhat of a euphoric experience.
Start traveling, you have no responsibilities. Pack up your bags and just leave. If you don't have money, you'll find it in the most oddest of places. I boarded a barque without a penny and worked for my stay. There is so much beauty out there that you just have to see it to believe it.
Above all, read something. Read a book that you don't like, I hate doctors so I read books on biology. Read a book that no body else reads. I can tell you that the slickest of math tricks I found were in the books that were abandoned. Read world history or history of world religions or history of maths or anything you like. History is like a story thats already written and just waiting to be read. There is immense lot of knowledge out there and only few cares to read it.
If you just start going out and getting involved in social causes that you believe in, you'll find lots of friends and life will turn around. Just remember there is always someone out there who is getting is worst then you are. So make the most out of your time on this planet. **
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Well it will give one more of a reason to get closer to Allah (swt). I strongly believe that tough times really test how strong your faith is in God. Because whatever happens in our lives is part of God's master plan and it is hard to deviate yourself from that - as everything happens for a reason and it takes time to realize that.