Re: IF your MIL wanted to buy you the cheapest gold set, would you mind?
Yeah I understand her MIL should treat her the way she would treat her own daughters. But even if she gives her a lot of gold, that doesn't show she really loves her or respects her. People get married in rich families all the time and the in-laws give tons of gold to their daughter in law, yet problems still arise between the MIL and the daughter in law. In such cases, I guess the gold wasn't enough to show how much the MIL 'loves' her daughter in law.