Re: If your hasban ask you to make roti?
DH is not in any way perfect. It bothers him if I spend too much time in the kitchen , doing useless things (his words), whereas I can spend that time with him or the family.
Today for example, my DD made the ‘atta’ when she returned from school. For her it is the ultimate Play Doh. My hubby may make the atta on the weekends and sometimes when he comes from work. It does not take time at all, 10 mins or so. We make enough for 2-3 days. And no, it does not go bad. This evening, DH returned from work, and he and our son laid out the table without my asking them to do so. At other times, i have to look around for help.
I understand about the glass of water thing. My FIL is like that. I think to this day, I have not seen him pick up a glass of water or a glass by himself. DH is different in that way. Again not perfect, no one is, but he helps with the dishes at times, does his own laundry when he has to and more. My MIL had issues with him doing things, but he very firmly said 'it is between me and my wife".