What to do if ur good friend fells in love with u and u already have a boyfriend?my friend now is in big dilemma cos hers friend(a boy)fell in love with her and she already have one.he is jelouse cos she comunicate with this guy too much.now hers friend asks from her to leave hers boyfrien.but she realy dont want to hurt him.any ideas how to react on that?
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One of the boys would eventually get hurt regardless of any action she takes.
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I think she should leave both of them and find a 3rd one...
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Everyone will have his/her own opinion. Here is mine.
I am quoting you here, “but she really dont want to hurt him”. I think that is the reason she is in this mess now. People don’t fall in love overnight. Your friend may have let her friend fall in love with her, intentionally or unintentionally. Apparently, the friend also knew about her boyfriend. She couldn’t have missed this coming, but because of her nature, she let it happen so as not to hurt him or whatever reason otherwise. IMHO, if she has taken the story this far, then she might not be feeling too much luvy-duvy for the first boyfriend, anyway. Emotional support (like asking from friends) is only required in love when there are doubts. ![]()
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missagate4pak, is your friend a teenage by any chance? Typical teenage love woe.
Tell her to keep her distance from him and he'll get over it in no time, thats for sure.
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don't wanna hurt him?
sab ko khush rakhne ka theka liya huwa hai kia ?
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i personally feel the friend should keep his for a while as this may only lead to an end of his friendship with her and her's eventually with her boyfriend... which in turn will leave be bad for all concerned, if he is a true friend, he should accept him and her are not meant to be.
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correct version........
i personally feel the friend should keep his distance for a while as this may only lead to an end of his friendship with her and her's eventually with her boyfriend... which in turn will leave be bad for all concerned, if he is a true friend, he should accept him and her are not meant to be
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You demand to know why technology is a pile of ****
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well, i agree with Lusi, get a 3rd one. what kinda love is that, she already has a BF and she fell in love with another GUY, I feel gal isnt sure what she want?
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thanks 4 ur advice:) !she is 18.but i think she mature cos as much as i know her then she loves hers boyfriend 4 a 2 yrs.even he was cheating her 4 many times biut she still love him and stays relyable.
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no she didnt fell in love with hers friend.she still love hers boyfriend,but this guy(hers friend)fell in love with her and because he saw how unhappu she is because hers boy he asked her to leave hers boy.hers boyfriend often was cheating her and leaving her and after some while used to return back.do she must stay with him even he tells that he loves her and will never let her go???