Re: if your family was wiped out would you move closer or away from religion?
I will suggest jawaab-e-shikwah instead.
and what do we know about the tests? Allah tells Himself:
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2: 214 "Do you think that you will enter paradise without undergoing such trials as were experienced by the believers before you? They met with adversity and affliction and were so shaken by trials that the Prophet of the time and his followers cried out “When will Allah’s help come?” Then they were comforted with the good tidings, “Yes, Allah’s help is near.”