Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
uh I don't agree with the above poster. Chatting/sending PMs is awkward and its better to keep it real.
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Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
uh I don't agree with the above poster. Chatting/sending PMs is awkward and its better to keep it real.
I am not saying to just chat with some random online person im saying someone you have met in real its easier for someone who isnt so open with people in person to talk ...u can talk online and still 'keep it real' and then when u meet in person for one you won't push the person away and second you can see for yourself if the person you have been talking to is same in real life or not...i am just like Hulahoop Queen....i am fine talking with guyz who aren't paki or muslim, but if they are i turn into a wall...but i was able to find the most perfect human being possible and now when we talk in person i dont turn into the wall that i usually was...
It was just a suggestion...worked for me so i thought wud let her know :)
Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
I am not saying to just chat with some random online person im saying someone you have met in real its easier for someone who isnt so open with people in person to talk ...u can talk online and still 'keep it real' and then when u meet in person for one you won't push the person away and second you can see for yourself if the person you have been talking to is same in real life or not...i am just like Hulahoop Queen....i am fine talking with guyz who aren't paki or muslim, but if they are i turn into a wall...but i was able to find the most perfect human being possible and now when we talk in person i dont turn into the wall that i usually was...
It was just a suggestion...worked for me so i thought wud let her know :)
You don't have to be defensive. This is a forum and just like you I can state my opinion too which means I can disagree with it and people can disagree with me.
Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
You don't have to be defensive. This is a forum and just like you I can state my opinion too which means I can disagree with it and people can disagree with me.
sorry didn't mean to sound defensive...
Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
The end result/outcome of all our struggles is already decided upstairs. Of course, the search/efforts is must to reach it, but it is always good to initially (and afterwards consistently) send humble applications to HIM, from time to time, to make the 'painful' process of 'searching' quick and easy for us, as HE loves it when we direct all our attention towards HIM (instead of ignoring HIM) and humbly admit in front of HIM that nothing is in our control (except trying) and we are too weak/flawed to take all the (right) steps (in the right direction) on our own, without HIS grace and mercy.
As it doesn't take HIM long to create favorable circumstances and put everything in the right place, we only need to sincerely beg him and perform deeds that pleases HIM.
Re: If you won’t look, you won’t find the one.
Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
The end result/outcome of all our struggles is already decided upstairs. Of course, the search/efforts is must to reach it, but it is always good to initially (and afterwards consistently) send humble applications to HIM, from time to time, to make the 'painful' process of 'searching' quick and easy for us, as HE loves it when we direct all our attention towards HIM (instead of ignoring HIM) and humbly admit in front of HIM that nothing is in our control (except trying) and we are too weak/flawed to take all the (right) steps (in the right direction) on our own, without HIS grace and mercy.
As it doesn't take HIM long to create favorable circumstances and put everything in the right place, we only need to sincerely beg him and perform deeds that pleases HIM.
Thanks buddy for that! I always believed in this, I think I just needed to be reminded. InshAllah things will happen for the best!
Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
“if you won’t look, you won’t find the one” is not a good advice. You girls need to relax and let the things play out on their own. There is no harm in taking time with guys just as friends. Stop scanning every guy who is approaching you as potential mate. Don’t be desperate, it's a bad vibe.
Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
“if you won’t look, you won’t find the one” is not a good advice. You girls need to relax and let the things play out on their own. There is no harm in taking time with guys just as friends. Stop scanning every guy who is approaching you as potential mate. Don’t be desperate, it's a bad vibe.
Best advice ever. I met my bf/future hubby at school and I'm the asme way as all of you - people think I'm a b*tch... maybe its because I'm shy or whatever but I was the same around him and I got to know him and 6 years later we're still together. Just let things happen naturally... No need to change how you are.
Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
“if you won’t look, you won’t find the one” is not a good advice. You girls need to relax and let the things play out on their own. There is no harm in taking time with guys just as friends. Stop scanning every guy who is approaching you as potential mate. Don’t be desperate, it's a bad vibe.
I don't think you even read the thread. I am saying that that's how I rolled most of my life, I never look at anyone in that way and now I am like maybe I should have had.
Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
^ I have read the thread and may be you missed the replies where girls are mentioning that they get stiff with guys who are not their close friends.
You can’t force yourself to look at someone "that way”except in arrange marriage seniors of ofcourse.
Re: If you won't look, you won't find the one.
^ I have read the thread and may be you missed the replies where girls are mentioning that they get stiff with guys who are not their close friends. You can’t force yourself to look at someone "that way”except in arrange marriage seniors of ofcourse.
ok makes sense. Thanks for your input.