Re: If you won’t look, you won’t find the one.
Expanding network - someone suggested to go out, meet people, and expand my network. Thank you for this b/c that I feel is the number one thing that I have neglected to do. I never had a huge social circle but I think when I started grad school and work, there was no time to go out to social gathering and events. I felt whatever time I did have, I would just dedicate it to my family and close friends (which is a decision I do not regret one bit - when time is so limited, I feel thats where I need to put in any spare time). However, now that I am almost done, I feel like I can go out and get to know more people.
I need to step outside my box and start communicating with people I “wouldnt consider my type”. I really like this piece of advice, it might also teach me a few things!
If you figure out how to do these 2, let me know. I have a fairly large social circle but because I’m fairly conservative, my really close group includes equal/more conservative girls who don’t happen to have any guy friends. So basically, the group is like 15-20 single girls.