in that episode of “friends” where joey’s gf is a hot model and he gets pretty serious with her but when he introduces her to his friends, she acts all fake nice in front of them and then tells joey later on how she totally hates them even if they were nice to her…
would you break it off like he did if your SO was like that with your friends and family or would you try to make it work?
sawly if it’s a repeat thread but it’s something that’s on my mind so answer…please
Re: if you were in joey's place............
Bros before hoes.
Just wanted to add: women can also be "bros"
Re: if you were in joey's place............
^That and people say if ya wanna see someone..see what kind of friends he hangs out with eh!. So if she didn't like my friends then..she is definitely going to pack her bags!.
Re: if you were in joey’s place…
^That doesn’t even make sense, @Xtron . She doesn’t like YOUR friends, how does it reflect upon her own friends? Obviously you aren’t a saint, especially if you just “That” a comment like “bros before hos”. :halo:
Anyways, I would never break off a relationship w/ my SO for my friends, esp. when I pick my SO over all the people in my life. Call me lame or whatever, but that is how it is. Also, in the case of Joey, he was never serious w/ any of the girls he brought home, he basically went through them like a box of tissues so of course it wasn’t hard for him to dump a girl for his friends. Also, the girl was at fault for being uber-fake and two-faced. I could see most people being turned off by that.
If I had been dating a guy for a few days/weeks and I found him controlling, insecure and overtly-possessive, I would definitely see it as a red flag and I would dump him if he openly hated my friends, especially when they were good people who also happened to have no bad feelings towards him. In many cases, abusive guys tend to want their partners to be isolated and I would wonder whether he was trying to do that with me.However, at the end of the day I put my relationship first. Also, he happens to be an amazing person and although it would be very rare for him to not like a friend of mine, I would consider his concerns regarding my friendship.
Re: if you were in joey’s place…
Re: if you were in joey’s place…
Unlike you, he seemed pretty serious. :halo: