Getting rid of him good should be lesson enough…he won’t be around to ever say something stupid again.
Seriously, I imagine the engagement is like the best or most romantic part stage of the relationship (considering how stressful weddings can be)…but this guy is showing his true colors BEFORE marriage…do you really think he’s going to change after marriage?
Right now it’s easier for your friend to “avoid him for a few days or weeks” because she’s living with her parents. But after marriage…she’ll be living WITH HIM under the same roof…and she won’t always be able to “avoid him for a few weeks”. Instead she’ll just have to deal with it. If she does not have the sense or courage to get a BETTER life for herself…then there’s nothing that can be done. It all depends upon her will-power to let this guy go and develop some respect for herself. There’s no shortage of guys. And it’s not a “daagh” on her character if she breaks the engagement. It’s much easier to break an unhappy mangni…than to deal with an abusive marriage or divorce in the future.
***People don’t change easily…and bad habits (like raging temper) don’t go away easily either. Instead of looking for short-term solution of only a few weeks for your friend…she needs to think of a long-term solution because this is her future she’s dealing with.
***Do her parents even know about his behavior? They need to know. No parents would bind their daughter to such a loser…nor should the have to spend so much time and money on a wedding…when their daughter is so miserable.
***There have been several threads where engaged girls are encountering such problems and their parents have no idea. It’s sad that one can’t even turn to their own parents for serious matters like these…a lot of future heartache for bother the girls and their parents can be avoided. Is it the strictness of our culture regarding girls…that may be causing this apprehension?