Ok i have a friend who asked me for a suggestion but i have no idea what to tell her so i would like to get advise from here
she is engaged…she and her fiance always have argument and when her fiance is angry he says what ever comes in his mind…after his anger is gone, he behave like nothing happened…She said she always think that she will avoid him and would like talk to him for few days which will be a good lesson for him but she always end up calling him on 2nd day…because of him she cant concentrate on her studies …she cry very easily when ever he blame her so say something stupid like i dont deserve a stupid girl like you etc…and yes the next day he would say sorry but then she said its very difficult for her to forget
so she was asking me how to avoid her fiance for few weeks ? she thinks maybe she dont talk to him for few days that would teach him a good lesson.
how to take him out from her mind? she always think about what he said to her …
how to teach him a lesson so he wont say something stupid again…
Give him the taste of his own medicine?
When he comes to say sorry, dont forgive him. Instead, blame him for the things he said to her and walk away telling him to set his mind straight and than talk to her. Or else he should find someone else.