and you must appologise, but your appology might act as a boost to a person’s ego who gives you an impression of “See I am always right” (which might bother you in future)
Would you still appologise for your inner satisfaction ?
How much your response depends on your relationship with him/her ?
Would you let go the matter and try to compensate in future through extra good behaviour with the person ?
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I think I might. Whatever that person feels afterwards is upto him/her. By not saying sorry, I might end up with this burden on my shoulders regardless of the good deeds I perform afterwards. If I am not wrong, there is also hadith telling us to apologise to the person to please Allah. Again, cannot remember the exact words of the hadith so will not quote it.
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i totally agree wid HHL
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Well said HHL :)
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i apologise wenever im wrong…and mashallah Atif never makes it look like he’s bigger then me in person…instead he apologies first even tho its not his fault…:halo:
point is i do know ppl who would snigger at u wen u apologise to them and i HATE that…which makes me not to apologise but actually to think about it im the bigger person instead wen i end up apologising…it frees me from all doubt and insecurtities…
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brother STP,
admitting one's fault, as soon as one can, is necessary.
in trust and regad or care for each other, nothing can be as patch ful as a sincere apology in person.
of course, not everybody is capable of this.
fulfilling own conscience's need to be absolved,
issues like boosting another's ego,
compensating elsewhere
and so forth are secondary less important events.
main one is to make the relationship revived for its own sake or leave it on a good note.
our Maker is looking over us all.
best,
Dushwari
and you must appologise, but your appology might act as a boost to a person's ego who gives you an impression of "See I am always right" (which might bother you in future)
Would you still appologise for your inner satisfaction ?
How much your response depends on your relationship with him/her ?
Would you let go the matter and try to compensate in future through extra good behaviour with the person ?
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STP,
it's better to apologise , and try not to be bossy . apologizing for something you have not done , maybe helpful in certain cases
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Good advices. JazakAllah khair :)
I would insha'Allah follow them in future by the grace and blessings of Allah.
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I hate ppl who will never apologize, never even recognize that they did something wrong! they just end up blaming u for everything!
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I hate ppl who will never apologize, never even recognize that they did something wrong! they just end up blaming u for everything!
Would you appologise from the same people if you honestly feel that it was your fault & you must appologise for self satisfaction ?
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Brother I saw some people in other threads also reponding with a full stop. Just curious to know what does it mean ?
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^ I'll let you in on the secret, its a reminder if your one to solve your problems with rock, paper and scissors.
GET OUT MORE!!!
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They use a** .** outside too? 
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If she ever catches me, i will say: "It was so dark, i thought it was you!"
Should work, i saw in movie.
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I hate ppl who will never apologize, never even recognize that they did something wrong! they just end up blaming u for everything!
I know people like this in my life but they are elders so what to do
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I know people like this in my life but they are elders so what to do
Fight proxy war. Find older elders to act the same to those elders.
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I hate ppl who will never apologize, never even recognize that they did something wrong! they just end up blaming u for everything!
yes , aisay bhe laug hotay hain ,
even i hate such ppl
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^ I'll let you in on the secret, its a reminder if your one to solve your problems with rock, paper and scissors.
GET OUT MORE!!!
Still didn't get it. Kindly elaborate further. Thanks
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You apologise because it is the right thing to do irrespective of how the other person may take it.