It’s okay Niksik - they don’t need a long answers just to enough satisfy their curiosity.
When my lil girl starts asking those questions, that's when I'll build the cage.
They can still see out of cages your know :)
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conan the barbarian and conan the destroyer are 3 yr old, a few weeks ago as they were in the bath together, she asked what was this string that her brother had.
so now seperate baths, less to prevent her from seeing things but more for his self esteem. I mean he is a baby but string?? sheesh what choice of words :D
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O.M.Goodnessgraciousme!!! ROTFL!!!!
Poor little man!
When my middle son barged into the bathroom one day while I was in the shower, he was absolutely and completely horrified...."what happened to your pee-pee mama?" THATS the disadvantage of having all boys lol. He was so very concerned over the whole thing and note, I think it was more along selfish lines like (OMG, why did someone take it away) so I spent the next 2 weeks trying to explain in age-appropriate fashion the differences. But he STILL thinks theres something really shady going on "down there" lol.
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X2 - LMAO!! ahahahaha!
MO3, good luck with that! sounds like he's made up his mind about it haha
at what age do explain the differences to them though between siblings of opposite genders?
Make sure you delete this thread in a few years 
The poor dude.
i would never bath a son and a daughter together , regardless of age. even a newborn has sharm o haya which should be protected.
we dont even change our son in the presence of others. ive seen friends change their babies with other kids lingering and looking on.. sometimes of the opp sex.. find it very behayaa.
Exactly. I think I found Same soach sister.
Why would bath them togather a girl or boy. EWWWW.
I wouldn't even bath two girls togather. Akir her aik kay liaay sharm o haya hoti hai.
Waisay bhi nunga kar kay buchchon ko aik doosray kay samnay nehlana bhi naheen chahyay. Waisay bhi islam main kisi soorat fully nunga honay say mana kia gia hai kay shaitan daikhta hai.
Khawateen I only saw one lady who was chupaing her son when changing diaper.
I saw one who openly change even to full nangi to her daughters infront of her father, chacha or no matter who. According to me that is bayahapun.
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According to Islam 7 saal ki umr main bistar alag karnay ka hukm hai per in mulkon main bayahai din raat TV main even cartoon main daikh kar to pehlay din say hi room alag karna chahyay aur agar room Alag na kar sakain to bed to alag kar dena chahyay aur bed ko door door rakhna chahyay ho sakay to beech main parda laga dain.
i would never bath a son and a daughter together , regardless of age. even a newborn has sharm o haya which should be protected.
we dont even change our son in the presence of others. ive seen friends change their babies with other kids lingering and looking on.. sometimes of the opp sex.. find it very behayaa.
Oh MY I so agree with you, I could not do the same, change diapers when others were looking!
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X2:
I really think kids nowadays are just wayyyyy too advanced. I was soo slow when I was 3-4, never used to catch on this stuff, and I had 3 brothers 
Questions are going to come sooner or later. My 4 year old already asks
Why does baba need to shave every day? What are those? - pointing right to your chest? Why do girls have long hair and boys don't? Why do you wear diapers sometimes? (maxipads)
It's natural - you can't avoid it. They are curious. Just have to give them the right answers without devulging too much information
What did you tell them about the chest part? My son invented a made up name for breasts and he was telling me that men don't have them but women do.
"poy" sounded very stupid to me so I told him to say "bosom" instead of "poy".lol
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a question...
is it ok if a teen girl change diper or change cloths of her younger sister/brother???
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^Yeah, if she's not a weirdo.
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no even if she is no weird but as a TEEN she might start thinking about private part of other gender....
coz many times if mother is busy she will tell her daughter to drssup younger sibblings..
What did you tell them about the chest part? My son invented a made up name for breasts and he was telling me that men don't have them but women do. "poy" sounded very stupid to me so I told him to say "bosom" instead of "poy".lol
Hareem - I told her they are muscles. I told her when people grow up - they get bigger and stronger and their muscles get bigger and stronger too. :) That's the best I could come up with in on short notice
poy - sounds like punjabi slang :)
Hareem - I told her they are muscles. I told her when people grow up - they get bigger and stronger and their muscles get bigger and stronger too. :) That's the best I could come up with in on short notice
poy - sounds like punjabi slang :)
Hahahahaha....it does sound punjabi if you say it in punjabi accent but he was saying it in an English accent so it didn't sound very offensive....lol.
Pardon my ignorance but I'm not sure if they are muscles or glands? Or a mixture of both?
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^ in a brit accent :) so that would be poaaayy :)
I don't know - I was trying to get out a situation :) I think breast is tissue with muscles behind it.
We need a doc!
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Breasts are fat. the muscles are pectorals (that u see men have toO)
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^hmmmm. So they aren't glands then. I'm confused. I need to talk to my hubby.