Hello ladies,
For those of you who planned planned and planned on GS and are now married and living life, if you could go back to change things and do anything differently regarding your wedding, partner, anything relative, what would it be and why? Or something you wished you had done, something you really wanted and couldn’t get for your big day? Expectations from marriage that were met, weren’t met?
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partner!? 
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yes, i guess that would also be a part of the expectations! anyone?
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^ lol!
no, i wouldn't change anything. it was a great day mA. what's the point of having regrets, anyway-- unless you're going to do something to change your situation, i.e. your partner, and then have another wedding altogether, no point dwelling on what could have been, right?
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I’d change everything. From clothes, to makeup, to decor, to ugh everyyything 
It was not how I’d like it. I was young and dumb and just said “jeee” to every suggestion. If I were older and had saved up a little money I’d gotten my own baraat ka jora .. my jora was not nice at all. It was horrible!!! I’d have it in an other venue. I’d do the decor myself or make my cousins do it I’d hire a makeup artist to get me ready. Saddest part on my shaadi was that I got ready on my own. Not makeup. But dupatta settng, hair everything. And I was seriously in tears right before the shaadi cause everyone had gone to the venue and NO ONE was there to help me get ready Not even my cousin sisters or my own sister … they were all busy getting themselves ready. Anyway, enough with the self pity. At least I got a great man 
That’s one thing I wouldn’t change. And oh, the baraatis were all awesome 
I feel blessed to have such people in my life now!