If you could call yourself five years ago and had 30 seconds, what would you say?

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That’s an online research question with some of the replies below

“I know you feel lost, scared, and confused about your father’s recent death. Just don’t give up. You will be successful and your family will be fine. It’s hard to accept that you will feel happiness again, but you will fall in love and accomplish things you never thought possible.”
— Emilio Cecconi

“Remember that girl at the Halloween party? The one that lives on your street? You marry her. Get to it.”
— Anonymous

“He’s not the one, he won’t change, he doesn’t love you in the way you deserve to be loved and never will. Let him go, I repeat, let him go..”
— Ridwa Mousa

“Start blogging now.”
— Nan Waldman

"Be friendly to strangers because one of them is going to save your life. And for god’s sake buy him lunch after he does.”
— Jeannette Pepin

Share what will be your answer to the question!

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Re: If you could call yourself five years ago and had 30 seconds, what would you say?

You’re responsible for your own life. Learn to adapt to change and to get up and start over.

And

Whatever happens, let it. Because after it youll get the most beautiful gift of your life.

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Don’t be afraid. No one will be disappointed - you will make them proud.

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You can handle everything you will go through. It will make you stronger, just don’t worry about the craziness or the evil you see.

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*Apply for that study program abroad and go live your life. Don’t worry about anything. Family will eventually understand.
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P.S. Awesome thread/idea!!!

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Enjoy right now with your siblings, you will loose one of them.

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:frowning:

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I hear you, LP.

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No matter how wandarfull he is, his MIL is meethi churi and make yar laife mizrable

..said most of life1

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Do not take that decision, it will change your life in the most unimaginable way.

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i wish i did NOT love this girl! :frowning:

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me calling me from 7-2013 into 7-2008

"Give and take you are on right track… either that
or you are going to be still just as dumb in 5 years that you wont know any better

pencil and paper is your friend.
pencil and paper is your friend.
pencil and paper is your friend.
pencil and paper is your friend.
pencil and paper is your friend.

Black girl who told you in the pool, that “you can’t be good swimmer because you have dense bone” is wrong, you going to be good swimmer just don’t swim right after workout.

Get married.. stop thinking about being a good husband and stuff… chicks going to complain any ways.. so just do it.
"
beep…

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OMG I have many things to tell my self. :frowning:

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Don’t do it, nothing will happen to you or them if you just say NO!!! NO one will gain anything from you doing this.

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-Don’t try so hard to be everything to everyone.
-You cannot please everyone, as some people do not want to be pleased by you.
-Find and pursue what you love.
-Be confident and stand up for yourself.
-Giving people the benefit of the doubt will hurt you, as not everyone deserves it. Still it is better to hope for the best.
-And remember that though the truth may be known to all parties, you still need to stand up for it and express it sometimes.
-Don’t blame yourself for others’ bad behavior.
-Don’t wait around for others to take responsibility for their own behavior. They most likely won’t.
-Do not rely so heavily on others’ opinion of you to determine your own self worth. You will only suffer for giving someone else that kind of power over you.
-You’ve been treated very well by your loved ones, and so you do not know what it truly means to NEED Allah’s love, but one day you will. Turn to Him.
-Learn from your child how to be a good parent. No one else’s opinion matters.

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  • Revenge is not sweet
  • Don’t let years of pent up anger cloud your judgement
  • It’s not worth it..it’s just material wealth..it’s not going to bring you the peace you’re looking for…walk away
  • You’ve lost both parents in 30 days…get to grief counselor NOW! don’t wait
  • Take the highroad and keep your dignity in tact

2008 was the worst year of my life :hinna:

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  • No one is worth that much energy, leave it. Save yourself the headache and regrets later on.

  • apply to the program, now!

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You guys are going to say all this in 30 sec :o

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Re: If you could call yourself five years ago and had 30 seconds, what would you say?

^lol maybe we talk in codes :wink: